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Disordered Eating Treatment

Disordered eating includes a range of unhealthy eating patterns that do not necessarily meet the criteria for a specific eating disorder diagnosis, yet still cause emotional distress, physical harm, and disruptions in daily life. These behaviors can include chronic dieting, skipping meals, compulsive overeating, or rigid control over food intake.

While disordered eating may appear less severe than a diagnosed eating disorder, it can progress over time and significantly impact one’s mental and physical health. Early recognition and treatment are essential to helping individuals develop a balanced, compassionate relationship with food, their bodies, and themselves.

Without compassion, eating can become a battleground—dominated by guilt, fear, and the desire for control. With compassion, eating becomes an act of self-care. It fosters peace with food and body, supporting not only physical nourishment but also emotional healing.

Developing a compassionate relationship with food often takes time and guidance, especially for those recovering from disordered eating. Through therapy, mindfulness, and self-exploration, individuals can learn to eat intuitively, respect their body’s signals, and approach themselves with the empathy they deserve.

In essence, a compassionate relationship with food is about freedom—freedom from judgment, fear, and self-punishment, and the freedom to nourish oneself with care, trust, and acceptance.

Treating disordered eating requires a comprehensive and individualized approach that addresses both the behavioral and emotional aspects of food and body image. Effective treatment does not focus solely on food habits, but on the deeper feelings, thoughts, and relational patterns that drive these behaviors.

For many, recovery involves rebuilding trust in the body, learning to identify emotional triggers, and finding healthier ways to cope with stress or negative self-perception. Treatment can be provided in various settings, from outpatient therapy to higher levels of care, depending on symptom severity and the person’s support system.

There is no single treatment that works for everyone with disordered eating. Each person’s experience is unique, shaped by their personality, family environment, cultural background, and personal history. For some, therapy may begin with addressing anxiety and perfectionism; for others, it may involve processing trauma or building self-esteem. The most effective treatment plans are collaborative and flexible, tailored to meet the individual’s emotional, psychological, and physical needs. Progress often happens gradually, but with consistent support, recovery is entirely possible.

Here is a list of the various therapeutic approaches. Your therapist will determine which is most beneficial, depending on your needs and circumstances.

Family-Based Therapy is a well-established treatment for adolescents struggling with disordered eating. In this approach, parents are empowered to actively support their child’s recovery. The therapist works closely with the family to create a structure around meals, encourage healthy eating patterns, and gradually return control over food choices to the adolescent as they stabilize. FBT emphasizes teamwork, open communication, and parental guidance to ensure adolescents feel supported rather than judged. This collaborative model helps strengthen family bonds and create an environment conducive to lasting change.

Emotionally Focused Family Therapy is designed to help families navigate the complex emotions that often accompany disordered eating. It focuses on fostering emotional safety, empathy, and stronger attachment between family members. Many individuals with disordered eating experience shame or fear of disappointing loved ones, which can lead to isolation. EFFT helps parents and caregivers recognize and respond to their child’s emotional needs in a supportive way, reducing conflict and enhancing trust. This approach allows families to work through difficult emotions together and rebuild a foundation of understanding and compassion.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is one of the most widely used and effective treatments for disordered eating. CBT helps individuals identify and challenge distorted beliefs about food, weight, and body image. For example, someone may believe their worth depends on their size or that eating certain foods makes them “bad.” Through CBT, clients learn to reframe these thoughts and replace rigid, all-or-nothing thinking with more balanced perspectives. The therapy also incorporates practical skills, such as establishing regular eating patterns, managing anxiety around food, and developing coping tools for triggers. Over time, CBT promotes self-awareness and reduces the power of unhelpful thought patterns that perpetuate disordered eating.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy is particularly useful when disordered eating coexists with intense emotions or impulsive behaviors. DBT teaches mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness—skills that help individuals manage overwhelming feelings without turning to food restriction, bingeing, or other harmful behaviors. The therapy encourages self-acceptance while simultaneously promoting change, emphasizing that the two can coexist. DBT’s structured approach helps clients reduce shame, strengthen self-compassion, and build resilience in the face of emotional distress.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps individuals learn to accept uncomfortable thoughts and feelings rather than trying to control or avoid them. For those struggling with disordered eating, ACT encourages a shift away from perfectionism, body dissatisfaction, or obsessive control toward living in alignment with personal values. For example, instead of focusing on achieving a “perfect” body, therapy may guide the person toward values such as health, connection, or authenticity. ACT empowers clients to make choices that support their well-being, even in the presence of discomfort or self-critical thoughts, leading to a more flexible and compassionate approach to both food and body image.

Internal Family Systems is a therapeutic model that views the mind as composed of distinct “parts,” each with its own feelings and motivations. In the context of disordered eating, one part may be critical and focused on control, while another part may use food to cope with pain or loneliness. IFS helps individuals understand these inner parts with curiosity rather than judgment, allowing them to access their “core self”—a calm, compassionate internal presence capable of leading healing. By creating understanding and harmony between these parts, IFS reduces internal conflict and promotes lasting emotional growth.

Psychodynamic therapy explores the underlying emotional and relational roots of disordered eating. It looks at how past experiences, family dynamics, and unconscious beliefs shape current behaviors around food and self-image. Many individuals discover that their eating patterns reflect attempts to manage deeper issues such as control, self-worth, or fear of rejection. Through insight-oriented exploration, psychodynamic therapy helps individuals process these experiences and develop healthier ways to express their needs and emotions. Over time, this process fosters a stronger sense of identity and emotional freedom from the eating behaviors that once dominated their lives.

In addition to structured therapies, many people benefit from complementary approaches that support the mind-body connection. Mindfulness practices, yoga, and somatic therapies can help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a nonjudgmental way. Nutrition counseling with an eating disorder-informed dietitian also plays a critical role in normalizing eating patterns and addressing nutritional deficiencies. Integrating these approaches within a supportive therapeutic relationship helps promote overall wellness and self-compassion—two essential ingredients for sustainable recovery.

Healing from disordered eating involves more than changing eating habits—it is about rebuilding a relationship with oneself that is rooted in respect, compassion, and trust. Therapy offers a safe space to understand the emotions and patterns behind disordered behaviors and to learn new ways of relating to food and body image. Over time, this process restores balance, confidence, and a sense of peace.

If you or your child is struggling with disordered eating, reaching out for help is a powerful first step. Arin Bass, LMFT, offers compassionate, evidence-based care for adolescents and adults in Marin and the San Francisco Bay Area, helping families navigate the complex emotional landscape of eating and body-image challenges. Her collaborative and supportive approach empowers individuals to heal from within and rediscover a healthy, fulfilling connection with food and themselves. Contact Arin today to schedule a consultation and begin the journey toward lasting recovery and emotional well-being.

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Arin Bass, LMFT

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Marin County
  • 20 years of experience
  • Eating Disorder Recovery Support (EDRS) Sponsorship Chair
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