Binge Eating
Binge eating disorder (BED) is one of the most common eating disorders among adolescents, yet it often goes unnoticed or misunderstood. For many teen girls, binge eating is not about a lack of willpower or discipline—it is a complex psychological and emotional condition that can deeply impact their self-esteem, physical health, and sense of control.
Binge eating disorder is characterized by recurrent episodes of consuming large quantities of food in a short period of time, often accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt, and loss of control. Unlike bulimia, individuals with BED do not regularly engage in compensatory behaviors such as purging, excessive exercise, or fasting.
During a binge episode, your teen may eat rapidly, continue eating even when uncomfortably full, or eat alone to hide how much they are consuming. These episodes are not driven simply by hunger—they are often a way to cope with emotional distress, loneliness, or anxiety. Over time, binge eating can lead to significant emotional and physical consequences, including depression, body dissatisfaction, and weight fluctuations.
Binge eating disorder is a serious mental health condition recognized by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). It can affect anyone, regardless of weight, shape, or background. For many adolescents, it represents a cry for help rooted in deeper emotional pain rather than a mere problem with eating habits.
The causes of binge eating disorder are multifactorial, involving biological, psychological, and environmental factors. No single cause is responsible, but several influences can increase vulnerability.
Genetics
Genetics can play a significant role. Teens with a family history of eating disorders, depression, or anxiety may have a higher risk of developing BED. Hormonal changes during adolescence may also influence appetite regulation and emotional responses to food.
Psychological factors
Psychologically, binge eating is often connected to low self-esteem, perfectionism, and emotional distress. Many individuals who struggle with binge eating have internalized negative beliefs about their body or self-worth. Emotional eating—turning to food to manage feelings of sadness, anger, or stress—is a common precursor to binge eating patterns.
Environmental factors
Environmental factors also play a critical role. Social pressures to conform to unrealistic body standards, exposure to diet culture, social media, and bullying about weight can increase body dissatisfaction and drive disordered eating. Family dynamics, including overly restrictive food environments or inconsistent meal patterns, can also contribute. For some teens, trauma or significant life changes can act as a catalyst, with binge eating becoming a coping mechanism to numb emotional pain.
Recognizing early signs of binge eating disorder is essential for timely intervention. Common behavioral and emotional symptoms include:
- Eating unusually large amounts of food in a short time
- Eating when not physically hungry or continuing to eat when full
- Hiding or hoarding food, eating in secret, or disappearing after meals
- Expressing guilt, shame, or disgust after eating
- Avoiding social situations involving food
- Frequent dieting or preoccupation with weight and body image
- Noticeable mood changes, irritability, or withdrawal
- Physically, your teen may experience fluctuations in weight, digestive issues, or fatigue.
It is important to note that binge eating disorder can occur at any body size. Not every teen with BED is overweight, and assumptions based on appearance can delay diagnosis and treatment.
Diagnosis typically involves a comprehensive evaluation by a mental health professional trained in eating disorders. This assessment includes a detailed discussion of your teen’s eating patterns, emotional triggers, and overall mental health. According to the DSM-5, to meet the criteria for binge eating disorder, a person must experience recurring binge episodes—at least once a week for three months—accompanied by feelings of loss of control and distress. Arin will explore emotional, cognitive, and behavioral aspects, as well as co-occurring conditions such as depression, anxiety, or obsessive-compulsive tendencies. In some cases, medical evaluations are also recommended to identify potential physical consequences of disordered eating, such as blood sugar irregularities or gastrointestinal problems.
In adolescent clients, parents play a vital role in this process by providing observations about their child’s eating behaviors and emotional well-being. Open communication, empathy, and a nonjudgmental approach can make your teen more willing to share what they are experiencing.
Early identification and intervention are key to preventing the long-term emotional and physical consequences of binge eating disorder. Left untreated, BED can lead to chronic health issues such as obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, and significant emotional distress. Psychologically, it can reinforce cycles of guilt, isolation, and low self-worth that are difficult to break without help.
When addressed early, recovery is entirely possible. Many teens and adults learn to rebuild a healthy relationship with food, improve emotional regulation, and restore confidence in their ability to care for their bodies. Support from family members can make a profound difference, especially when treatment is collaborative and compassionate.
If you struggle with binge eating or suspect your teen is struggling with binge eating, the first step is to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding. Avoid focusing on weight or appearance. Instead, emphasize your concern for their emotional and physical wellbeing. Let your teen know that you have noticed changes and that you are there to help them find support.
Encourage open dialogue by asking how they feel rather than what they are eating. Teens with BED often experience intense shame around their behaviors, and judgment or criticism may cause them to withdraw further. Express unconditional love and support and reassure them that recovery is possible with help.
Seek professional guidance from a therapist who specializes in eating disorders. Treatment is most effective when it addresses both the behavioral aspects of eating and the underlying emotional issues driving the disorder. Family involvement in therapy is often crucial for promoting healing and creating a supportive home environment.
If your teen is showing signs of binge eating disorder, know that you are not alone. Many families in San Francisco and Marin face similar challenges. Early intervention, compassionate care, and the right therapeutic approach can make all the difference.
Arin Bass, LMFT, is a licensed therapist specializing in the treatment of eating disorders for adolescents, young adults, and their families. She provides a safe and nurturing environment where teens can explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors without fear of judgment. Her work focuses on helping young people develop self-acceptance, emotional awareness, and healthier coping skills.
Supporting your loved one through binge eating disorder can feel overwhelming, but you do not have to navigate it on your own. If you are a parent in Marin or San Francisco, reach out to schedule a consultation with Arin Bass, LMFT. Together, you can begin the journey toward healing, self-compassion, and lasting well-being.
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Arin Bass, LMFT
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